If you're a difficult person, which zodiac sign is best for you?

I am a difficult girl, i'm flirty but i'm contained, i want to be ignored but i only want to be ignored for only a while, im very dramatic but i am real and i don't wan the guy to be as dramatic as me, i want him to just be there. all the guys i've tried with i've been compatible with but i either get tired of them or they don't give me enough attention. I was born oct 19th so im a libra born on a cusp on a scorpio and i've dated a a gemini, aquarius, cancer on the cusp of a leo, a capricorn, and a sagittarius. i've tried with a leo before but i was never enough for him and i've also tried with a couple of libras but i felt like i was never fun enough or just not what they're looking for. i'm not particularly looking for compatibility, i'm looking for the type of sign that will go great with my difficult personality so i know what kind of guys to avoid and the ones i should go after.